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John Gray’s Wife Tells Critics ‘Everybody Needs to Shut the Hell Up!’

Relentless Church’s Aventer Gray, wife of Pastor John Gray, has released an hour-long video on Instagram calling out ‘judgmental Christian critics’ who keep weighing in on her public and private affairs.

For reference, John Gray is a former associate pastor at Joel Osteen’s Lakewood Church. Rife with decrepit theology and an unregenerate heart, he left there and took over the church in 2018, moving into a $1.8 million ~~mansion~~ “parsonage” paid for by the church. This is quite prescient, as ironically, the only thing he has been “relentless” about is cheating on his wife, wearing expensive clothing, and making the news for one scandal after another.

Lamenting that “you reach a point where you have to say something” Aventer goes on to say that “Everybody needs to shut the hell up!” and “keep your mouth off people, sip your own tea, and stop being thirsty for the details and info regarding the pain of others.”

“Get your mouth off of people! You don’t know what they’ve been through. You don’t know what they’re going through. And while you’re talking about other people, you probably just got finished doing something that you shouldn’t be doing.”

While the couple’s relationship was once viewed in high esteem and thought to be a marriage worth emulating, being prominently featured in their canceled TV show, The Book of John Gray, multiple adulterous affairs on the part of the shameless pastor have made them fodder for gossip and pity.

Aventer is currently recording season 2 of her podcast ‘Ave Unfiltered’ which features frank conversation between her and her husband on how much he cheated, and what sort of trauma he insists has contributed to his latest scandal.

h/t EEW Magazine

Pastor John Gray Recovering After being Hospitalized with Life Threatening Pulmonary Embolism

Pastor John Gray of Relentless Church in Atlanta seems to be recovering after being hospitalized with a life-threatening saddle pulmonary embolism (SPE), according to wife Aventer who posted on Instagram.

A pulmonary embolism is when there is a blockage in one of the arteries of the lungs, According to Healthline, A saddle PE is when a large blood clot gets stuck in the main pulmonary artery. This is rare a and makes up between 2-5% of all PE cases. It’s usually treated by blood thinners, clot-dissolving medications, or using a catheter to remove the clot. She writes

Hello family. My family and I stand in need of a miracle. Please keep my husband @realjohngray in your prayers.

After feeling a little different over the past couple weeks, he went to the ER on Thursday evening and was immediately admitted to CCU with A saddle Pulmonary Embolism in the pulmonary artery and more lung blood clots. The Saddle PE is in a position that could potentially end his life if it shifts at all. The clot burden is severe and only God is holding it in place. He is currently in CCU and based on CT & Echo we will need two types of surgery due to the pressure now on the heart within the next 24 hours. To place this in perspective, the doctor said that people have come into the hospital dead with this exact scenario he walked in with.

The Doctor said God has to keep him through the night and he can not move, not even get up to walk to a bathroom.

Ok, COOL! Thanks ma’am! God isn’t done! I don’t care what CT, ECHO, All or any of the tests show! It’s clear God isn’t finished. Clots have to bow to my God! That’s all!

In a subsequent update, Aventer posted on that her husband’s leg clot is gone and did some sort of name it-and-claim-it incantation on the remaining lung clots, telling them to “dissipate & bow at the name of Jesus” and that will not travel up towards his heart, which would be catastrophic, but rather “all will stay in place place because they have to obey the voice of the Lord.” She also added ‘WE HAD A SMALL GOD ORDAINED DIVINE DELAY, BUT GOD IS GOOD” and we have no idea what that means.

For reference Gray is a former associate pastor at Joel Osteen’s Lakewood Church. Rife with bad theology and an unregenerate heart, he left there and took over the church in 2018, moving into a $1.8 million ~~mansion~~ “parsonage” paid for by the church. This is quite prescient, as ironically the only thing he has been “relentless” about is cheating on his wife while staying employed and wearing expensive clothing, making the news frequently for one scandal after another.